It happened. Let's take the next step together.
If you were just scammed — or think you might have been — you are not stupid, and you are not alone. These attacks are engineered by professionals to work on smart, careful people. The scammer is the only person who did something wrong here. Patch will stay with you through every step below, and this list saves itself so you can come back any time.
1 Stop the bleeding
Only do the steps that match what happened. Skip the rest — this is your list, not a test.
2 Report it — ten minutes that fight back
Reporting isn't paperwork. It's how the people who did this get found, and how the next person gets protected.
3 Expect the second wave
This is the part almost nobody warns you about — so we will.
- "We've recovered your funds — pay a release fee / tax first."
- "We're investigating your case — install this app so we can assist you."
- "This is your bank — move your money to a safe account."
- "Act now, this offer expires today." (Urgency again. It's always urgency.)
4 Tell one person
Secrecy is the scammer's best friend — it's the thing they coach hardest. Telling one person breaks their last hold on you.
Doctors get scammed. Lawyers get scammed. Engineers, professors, security experts — all of them.
Being targeted says nothing about you. What you do next — the steps on this page — says everything, and you're already doing it.
Restored — you're not alone in the after
If this loss has you feeling hopeless, please call or text 988 (US, free, 24/7). You matter more than any amount of money ever will.
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